Strip clubs can be a lot of fun, but so many people have funny ideas about them. This is a club where there’s live entertainment by dancers. It may be nude or partially nude. It’s a perfect place for guys to go in order to get away from it all and blow off a little steam.
Some people think that strip clubs are brothels in disguise. Others think that they’re dirty and only creepy guys go to them. I used to think this as well until a good friend of mine set me straight. He gave me three pieces of advice about strip clubs that really helped me see the light.
Be Cool And Have Fun
The whole point of going to a gentleman’s club is to just relax and have a good time. Lots of guys get nervous being around so many beautiful women, especially when they’re nude or scantily clad. But you’ve got to relax if you really want to enjoy the experience.
Lots of guys get stuck on one dancer. They kind of fall in love a little bit. They may even expect to get her phone number. What these guys don’t realize is that dancers are just doing their job. They enjoy it of course, but they’re not interested in meeting guys.
You’ll have a chance to chat with the girls usually and that’s part of the fun. But just lighten up and relax. Enjoy the entertainment and don’t get hung up.
Just like going to a regular bar, you’ve got to come prepared. This means bringing enough money to have a good time. You’ll use the money to tip the dancers and the more you have, the more attention you’ll get from them. It’s not fun to run out of money at a gentleman’s club.
You should also dress nicely. It’s not like going to your local neighborhood bar. If you look your best and slap on a little cologne, the dancers will appreciate the effort and be more likely to hang out with you a bit.
No Shame In The Strip Club Game
Finally, keep in mind that it’s not weird and it’s not cheating. Lots of guys feel like if they go and watch nude dancing, they’ve crossed some kind of line and cheated on their wives or girlfriends. That’s not the case at all. Think of it more as a night out with the guys.
If you asked around, you’d be surprised at how many people around you hit strip clubs at least occasionally. Of course, there are folks who are hardcore regulars, but most guys have gone to a gentleman’s club at some point. Many of them go fairly regularly. It’s just another type of bar with live entertainment. If you can think of it this way, you’ll have a great time.